WORDS BY LADY G- SPEAK UP/ MEANINGLESS RELATIONSHIPS

SPEAKING UP

Today, let us talk about: MEANINGLESS RELATIONSHIPS

MEANINGLESS RELATIONSHIPS= Relationships with no meaning. They tie you down and break your soul with your permission.

1.         Recognize what is good/bad for you.

A.       First and foremost, find out who your inner self is.

B.      Take some time to get to know you (Find out what you like/dislike).

C.      If whatever you partake in (friendships, relationships, everyday decisions) gives you a bad feeling; leave it alone.

D.      If whatever you partake in (same as above) gives you a good feeling; stick with it.

2.      Relationships

A.       Self.

B.      Family (parents, children, cousins, etc…).

C.      Significant other.

D.      Friends.

E.       Coworkers

F.       Religious relationships.

G.      “Haters”.

3.      Self- relationship

A.       There are 3 forms of “you” (The past you, the present you, and the future you).

B.       The past you is the biggest teacher for the present you to make wiser decisions for the future you.

C.       Respect yourself enough to let go of any and everything that holds you down.

D.      “Feelings” assist you with the route you should take to either get away or stay in.

E.       Setting up your priorities is important. It helps you check off what’s more important in your life.

F.       DO NOT let people know your daily schedule if you have a routine. They will use that to their advantage.

4.      Family, friends, coworkers, and religious relationships

A.       Family will always be one of the hardest groups of people to deal with when you know for sure that you need to let go.

B.      It is okay to love people from a distance.

C.      If coworkers are not contributing to the “team” in a positive manner; steer away respectfully.

D.      Religion= Remain open minded. Everyone has an opinion.

E.       Friends= can take you from ALL relationships listed above if you allow them too.

5.      Significant Other

A.       Before getting into a relationship, make sure you are ready.

B.      When in a relationship, if he/she is not leading you to the God inside of you…LET GO.

C.      If you have doubts, unanswered questions, bad feelings….LET GO.

D.      If you both are bringing the worst out of one another….LET GO.

6.      Haters

A.       Haters attempt to steal your light, in hopes to ignite a fire that they are missing inside.

B.      Haters are snakes. They can be just about any one (Family, Significant other, friends, coworkers, religious family, etc.).

C.      Listen to people when they tell who they are through their actions.

**Don’t demolish the set-up created by our Creator. Be thankful and work with it.

**Like anything else unhealthy; meaningless relationships can be detrimental to your health, spirit, emotions, and mind.

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